Sunday, November 22, 2009

{Q&A}

Thanks again to all of my "lurkers" out there who came out to say hi the other day - 20 comments! I know that is nothing to some bloggers, but super exciting for me.

It was really fun to hear how people found This Girl's Life and why they are faithful followers.. I am humbled that anyone would find inspiration, motivation, or a lift for their spirits from reading about my life. I wish I could dedicate more of my blog to my crafty ventures - that is how it all started - but there will be plenty of time for that when the boys get a bit older. For now, you'll just have to put up with about 90% toddler, 10% crafty. :)

Anyway, on to your questions!

keepingawake asked: Do you find much time to scrapbook these days?

The short answer - no. LOL :) But it is partly a decision I've made. The last time I scrapbooked was months ago! I took a day off of work, packed up all my supplies, and went over to my mother-in-law's house for uninterrupted hours of scrapping. It was pretty much like heaven. Lately when I've had free time, I've chosen to work on Etsy projects or other things around the house. We will be hosting Christmas this year (yay!) so I want to get a lot of decorating stuff done before then. Hopefully once the holidays are over I can get back to it. I'm sooooo behind with pictures it is really overwhelming!

The Barron's, Rachel and Tamara - asked if we are planning on having anymore children.

The short answer again - no. :) Right now, especially with the hubs not working so he can stay home with the boys, there is no way we could afford another child. But aside from that practical reason, taking care of the boys has been the biggest challenge of our lives. Not to say it wasn't worth it and we don't love having them (the age they are at now is sooo much fun), but adding another baby to the mix right now would probably put us into shock. We just couldn't handle it. I can't say never, but it wouldn't be for at least 3 or 4 years. And with my luck I would end up with twins again. Double shock.

Sarah asked: What is my favorite part of Thanksgiving?

I love the coziness of Thanksgiving. The feeling of family and taking time out to really stop and think about all of the things to be thankful for in our lives. Becoming a mom has intensified that feeling 200% for me. It has shown me just how important family is, and I am blessed with a wonderfully supportive family. And if I can add a 2nd favorite, the food! 1. Stuffing! 2. broccoli and cheese casserole! 3. pumpkin and pecan pie!

h.Lo asked I'm wondering if you have continued doing/finished the 30 day Shred.

Well, when I started I was so gung ho about it and only missed a few days the first few weeks, but I think to date I've completed 22 days of the Shred, and the last time I did it was months ago. I definitely saw results, and I'm currently 5 or 6 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight. I've really fallen off the exercise wagon lately - I'll blame that partly on the boys horrendous sleeping habits as of late and the fact that I usually did my work out after they go to bed. I did get on the treadmill yesterday though, and that really boosted my mood. It certainly is a great workout for quick results!

Rachel asked two questions...

What type of work do you do?

I work in external relations for a seminary - advertising, fundraising, marketing, event planning. It is a fun job with a good mix of work!

How do you find time to "do it all"? I know you write sometimes that it's hard, but any tips?

I think things definitely look different from the outside looking in, as I almost always feel like I'm not getting the things done that I need to. It is a battle that I fight on a daily basis. The only time I usually have these days to work on personal projects is after the boys are in bed, which is usually 9 pm, or when they are napping on the weekends which is a good 2 or so hours in the afternoon. Yesterday, for example, I did a mile on the treadmill and cleaned/organized a bunch of stuff in our rec room during their nap. I work on my Etsy stuff after they go to bed at night. Now that they are getting older I can work on some projects while they are up, like hanging pictures (too noisy while they are sleeping). It is a real balancing act that I'm constantly trying to improve. Maybe I'll get there once they are 15 and don't want me around anymore. ;)

Angela asked: What is your favorite book?

Well, the only books I've read in the past year or so have been made of cardboard and have more pictures than words. :) So from that selection, my choice would probably have to be a birthday book by Dr. Seuss that the boys got for their 1st birthday. It is way too long for them to sit through yet, but it has the best rhymes, great imagery and a really wonderful message.

rachelshingleton asked what kind of camera are you using these days?

Our camera leaves a lot to be desired - it is a Kodak Z650 that we bought several years ago. I do my best with editing, but it doesn't take the best photos. I would love to be able to buy a DSLR one of these days...

DianeTaylor asked describe what your perfect day would be.

Oh, there are so many things that I would want to pack into one day! Hmmm...

Sleep in until 9:00, take a leisurely shower and get ready. Go to Starbucks for a latte and some sort of carb-filled treat. Wander around Hobby Lobby for an hour or so and buy some new craft supplies. Go home and play with the boys for a bit until their nap. Get takeout from our favorite sandwich shop for lunch and do some scrapbooking or knitting while the boys sleep. Once the boys get up we would take them to the park to play for awhile, then send them off to a sitter while we go to dinner and a movie. Do some more crafting after the boys go to bed and watch DVR'd episodes of Seinfeld or That 70's Show.

Ahhh what a wonderful day that would be! :)

Thanks for all of the great questions, and to any of you who actually read all of this!

Friday, November 20, 2009

{cool}

IMG_5950 by you.

So we think Landon has officially said his first word.

Cool.

He'll say it three times in a row.

Cool.Cool.Cool.

Pretty darn cute. He can mimic quiet a few words if we say them to him first, like apple, pretty, and last night he said "up", but he added an aaahhh sound to the end so it sounded like he was making a Greek toast.

Opa!

God I love that little man.

Still working on Ben, but so far Landon has been a few weeks ahead of him with everything so it shouldn't be too long!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

{holiday cheer}

red and green knit garland by you.

New holiday garlands are in the shop!

{go lurkers!}

Wow! 19 comments yesterday - go lurkers! :) But seriously it was so nice to hear from those of you that don't regularly comment and you all had so many sweet things to say about why you visit my blog. So thank you! I'll take some time to reply to your questions in a few days - there are some good ones!

Busy day at work today so I don't have anything too eloquent to share. But I DO have some fun photos! I received the CD of pictures from our family photoshoot that my friend Laura did a few weeks ago and boy am I in love. She is one seriously talented girl!

Here are a few of my favorites - it was hard to narrow them down...

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IMG_5989 by you.

IMG_5851 by you.

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IMG_6021 by you.

IMG_5950 by you.

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IMG_5733 by you.

OK, so I didn't do a good job narrowing them down afterall. :)

Happy Thursday Friends!

Only one more sleep til Friday!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

{I see you!}

So we all know that blogging is a great way to write down our thoughts and ideas, share photos of our family and crafty projects. It is also a great way to connect with "friends" who can relate to your life in some way.

And I think most of us bloggers would be lying if we didn't say that we love getting comments. I know that I have a lot of lurkers out there (thanks sitemeter!) and I'm just curious why you visit This Girl's Life.

I've met lots of friends online through The Nest, scrapbooking communities and other places, and I'm curious how you found me.

Soooo....how about you come out of the blog closet and do me two favors...

1. Tell me how you found me and why you visit This Girl's Life
2. Ask me a question! Anything - well....within reason, right? :)

I would love to hear from my lurkers (and regulars) out there! (there have already been 370 of you this week!)

I'll post and answer everyone's questions later this week!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

{ressemblance}



I found this photo of my Granddaddy - I'm guessing he is in his middle to late teens here, and can't help but notice the ressemblance between him and our Landon. I definitely don't think it was a coincidence that he received Granddaddy's name.

{humbled again}

Just when I'm feeling very sorry for myself, for the lack of sleep I'm getting, for the zero money to buy new work clothes (or even the face wash I like to use), for the strained relationships I'm dealing with...just when I'm asking God to make things easier on me, I read this...

Inconvenient Gratitude

This is a wonderful blog and I highly recommend it to women who deal with the daily struggles of work, family and self-image. Today's post reminded me that all I need to do is change the way I view my life, instead of wishing for my life to change.

Friday, November 13, 2009

{back in the saddle}



My Etsy shop is officially re-opened!

I took a vacation when we moved to the new house, and just hadn't found the time until a few days ago to pull everything out and get it going again. I'm very excited about the items I'm working on, especially the journals created from vintage and recycled materials. I'm also going to be slowly adding knitted items - my first scarf is now in the shop and I might be a bit biased but I think it is rather lovely.

So please take a moment to visit love squirrels and also visit my newly created facebook page and become a fan!

I'm working on a special holiday giveaway so stay tuned! It will involve lots of yarn. :)

{10 years}

On November 13, 1999, the hubs and I had our first date. We went to our local park and sat on the swings. We walked over to the pond and watched the ducks swim around the calm water. It was an unseasonably warm day for November in Indiana.

We didn't talk much. That's how our first few dates went - lots of quiet. But in that quiet, there was a shared feeling that we had found something really special. Both of us knew we had found our partner for life.

I'm feeling quite sentimental today about this anniversary. One whole decade of anything is a lot when you are only three decades old (plus one year, but who's counting?) And what a decade it has been! Dating for four years, married for six. Two apartments, two houses, two baby boys! Countless ups and downs, laughter and tears.

He is so much a part of me now that I don't remember who Mandy was before she had Dan. And now that we have our boys, that feeling has only multiplied. His family took me in as their own and I could have never imagined what a blessing that has turned out to be. Everywhere I look there are people that love me and support me. I'm one lucky gal!

Just for fun, here is a pic of Dan and I from fall of '99 when we first started dating...



Oh to be 19 and 21 again!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

{cheap}



Frugal, practical, bargain-hunter. All of those words definitely describe me and have always described me. I've always liked to get the best deal for my money. And now that we are living on A LOT less money at our house, I have had to really step it up and find ways to save money on everything we buy. I've gone from being frugal to downright cheap, which I don't think is a bad thing. Whey pay full price for something when you can pay half or even less than that?!

I thought I would share some of my favorite online resources for coupons and other deals to help my fellow bargain-hunters. These are the blogs I check on a daily basis:

http://freebies4mom.blogspot.com/

http://www.mamacheaps.com/

http://www.survivingthestores.com/

http://www.moneysavingmom.com/money_saving_mom/

http://hip2save.blogspot.com/

I print lots of online coupons that I find through these blogs, and also through the websites like shortcuts.com and of the stores we shop at like Meijer, Walgreens and CVS. And don't forget the Sunday circulars - you can find great coupons in those.

Since we live right near a Walgreen's now, I always pay attention to their sale flyer because they offer reward dollars for buying certain items. Mixing those items with coupons can result in serious savings, and sometimes scoring items for free!

I think the biggest lesson I've learned in the short time we've been on this tight budget is that I don't NEED a lot of the things I think I needed. I can do without many things I thought were necessities and still be pretty darn happy. And if there is something I want to buy, I have learned how to be patient until it goes on sale or I have a coupon. The feeling of saving our family money makes it all worthwhile.

Here's to saving money!

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